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Welcome to Relationship Results: Counselling for Individuals, Couples & Relationships in Brisbane

COVID-19 UPDATE: Skype, FaceTime, Zoom and phone sessions are available (even though I cannot see you in person right now)

If you’re struggling with a problem, or a habit… or with anything that has been holding you back… then you’re definitely in the right place!

My Name is Paul McNiff and I’m a Psychotherapist, a Coach and a Counsellor located in Nundah (just north of Brisbane CBD)—but I also work with people using Skype, FaceTime, Zoom and phone sessions throughout Australia and also internationally. I specialise in helping people, families, and couples who are facing challenges around the following areas:

  • Relationships
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Anger management
  • Parenting challenges
  • Self-esteem and confidence issues

No matter how long you’ve been struggling…
No matter how long you’ve been in pain or feeling held back…
And no matter what you’ve already tried to do to make things better… even if you think you’ve already tried everything… whatever you do, please don’t give up yet! I promise you that I work differently to other people that you might have already seen—really!

And based on the results that I see every day… no matter how bad things might look and feel right now, you CAN change them! So if you’re ready to make your future life different from your past, click one of the links on this page and let’s get started!

Hi Paul,

When you said you worked differently to others, I thought you were just saying that to get people in.

But OMG! Wow! After seeing 3 others and walking away with no help, I am just blown away with how much you’ve helped us in such a short time.

Paul, all I can say is THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

You’re amazing! You really DO work differently! Thank you”

Rochelle and Steve


Need some help for your relationship?
Check out my book:
Solving the Marriage Conundrum…

If you’re struggling in your relationship—in any way—all of that is about to change.

Did you know that many of the things that you’re probably doing to try to STOP fighting, and FIX your relationship, are probably having the opposite affect and making things even worse instead? That’s what I call a CONUNDRUM!

In my book: Solving the Marriage Conundrum I’ll show you the REAL reasons why you and your partner are fighting or facing relationship challenges. And I’ll show you why your attempts to fix things haven’t worked–yet!

But that’s not all! I’ll also show you EXACTLY what you need to do and say so you can stop fighting, stop struggling and reconnect with your partner again–to make your relationship feel great!

And even though I’ve called it “the Marriage Conundrum”, the step-by-step strategies that I will share with you in this book have the power to make a huge difference to your situation, no matter what type of relationship you’re in, whether you’re married, de-facto, or even if you’ve just started dating.

Click here to find out more or buy my book…

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